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About
ADHD
Anxiety
Identity Exploration
Coping and Psychoeducation Resources
CONTACT LANEY
About
ADHD
Anxiety
Identity Exploration
Coping and Psychoeducation Resources
CONTACT LANEY
Moving From Motivation to Discipline (Without the Shame)
Laney Holtgrefe 9/23/25 Laney Holtgrefe 9/23/25

Moving From Motivation to Discipline (Without the Shame)

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Boundaries: Loving You and Me at the Same Time
Laney Holtgrefe 9/22/25 Laney Holtgrefe 9/22/25

Boundaries: Loving You and Me at the Same Time

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Living Authentically: From Identity Exploration to Self-Compassionate Action
Laney Holtgrefe 9/22/25 Laney Holtgrefe 9/22/25

Living Authentically: From Identity Exploration to Self-Compassionate Action

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ADHD Groups Coming in 2026
Laney Holtgrefe 9/9/25 Laney Holtgrefe 9/9/25

ADHD Groups Coming in 2026

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What Is Tapping (EFT)?
Coping Skills Laney Holtgrefe 7/28/25 Coping Skills Laney Holtgrefe 7/28/25

What Is Tapping (EFT)?

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The Power of Slowness: How Doing Tasks Slowly Can Soothe an Anxious Nervous System
Laney Holtgrefe 7/23/25 Laney Holtgrefe 7/23/25

The Power of Slowness: How Doing Tasks Slowly Can Soothe an Anxious Nervous System

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Somatic and Body-Based Coping Skills for ADHD Overwhelm
Coping Skills Laney Holtgrefe 7/23/25 Coping Skills Laney Holtgrefe 7/23/25

Somatic and Body-Based Coping Skills for ADHD Overwhelm

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ADHD, Intimacy, and Connection: Book ADHD After Dark by Ari Tuckman
Books Laney Holtgrefe 7/23/25 Books Laney Holtgrefe 7/23/25

ADHD, Intimacy, and Connection: Book ADHD After Dark by Ari Tuckman

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Birth Control, the Brain, and Mental Health: What No One Told Us
Books Laney Holtgrefe 7/23/25 Books Laney Holtgrefe 7/23/25

Birth Control, the Brain, and Mental Health: What No One Told Us

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Mental Health and your Menstrual Cycle; Blood by Dr. Jen Gunter
Women's Health Laney Holtgrefe 7/23/25 Women's Health Laney Holtgrefe 7/23/25

Mental Health and your Menstrual Cycle; Blood by Dr. Jen Gunter

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ADHD and Relationships: Married to Distraction by Dr. Edward Hallowell and Sue George Hallowell
ADHD Relationships Laney Holtgrefe 7/23/25 ADHD Relationships Laney Holtgrefe 7/23/25

ADHD and Relationships: Married to Distraction by Dr. Edward Hallowell and Sue George Hallowell

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Gabor Mate’s Scattered Minds brings different perspective on ADHD and it’s origins
Books Laney Holtgrefe 7/23/25 Books Laney Holtgrefe 7/23/25

Gabor Mate’s Scattered Minds brings different perspective on ADHD and it’s origins

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You’re Allowed to Rethink Everything: Letting Go of Inherited Beliefs and Choosing Your Own Values
Identity Laney Holtgrefe 7/21/25 Identity Laney Holtgrefe 7/21/25

You’re Allowed to Rethink Everything: Letting Go of Inherited Beliefs and Choosing Your Own Values

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Change Isn’t Betrayal—It’s Growth: Embracing Your Evolution
Identity Laney Holtgrefe 7/14/25 Identity Laney Holtgrefe 7/14/25

Change Isn’t Betrayal—It’s Growth: Embracing Your Evolution

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Who Am I, Really? Understanding Identity Beyond ADHD- Roles, Labels, and Expectations
ADHD, Identity Laney Holtgrefe 7/7/25 ADHD, Identity Laney Holtgrefe 7/7/25

Who Am I, Really? Understanding Identity Beyond ADHD- Roles, Labels, and Expectations

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The ‘Good Kid’ Blueprint: When Childhood Roles Shape Adult Identity
Identity Laney Holtgrefe 6/30/25 Identity Laney Holtgrefe 6/30/25

The ‘Good Kid’ Blueprint: When Childhood Roles Shape Adult Identity

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What to talk about in  therapy when I don’t “have” anything to talk about?
Therapy Laney Holtgrefe 6/4/25 Therapy Laney Holtgrefe 6/4/25

What to talk about in therapy when I don’t “have” anything to talk about?

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Why Can't I Just Start? 10 Questions to Challenge Procrastination at Work
ADHD, Burnout Laney Holtgrefe 6/3/25 ADHD, Burnout Laney Holtgrefe 6/3/25

Why Can't I Just Start? 10 Questions to Challenge Procrastination at Work

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Big Feelings, Tender Hearts: Navigating Emotional Dysregulation with ADHD
ADHD Laney Holtgrefe 6/2/25 ADHD Laney Holtgrefe 6/2/25

Big Feelings, Tender Hearts: Navigating Emotional Dysregulation with ADHD

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Life Happens: My Compassionate Cancellation Policy
Therapy Laney Holtgrefe 6/2/25 Therapy Laney Holtgrefe 6/2/25

Life Happens: My Compassionate Cancellation Policy

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